What NOT To Do In Your Story – 1

Date: May 9, 2026
Bangalore

Last week I heard a story from a person who had traveled to the US of A.

He spoke about how he flew through 3 different states and stuff he did.

He was recounting his travel experience.

As I sat there listening to him, I said to myself, “Wow, that’s cool.” And that was it.

Did I think it’d be cool to go to those place? Sure. But…

Did his story leave a lasting impact on me? No.

Did I learn something new from his story? No.

Was I able to relate to his story? No. Because I’ve never been to the US and most people in the audience didn’t either.

In fact, it’s been just a couple of days and I don’t even remember the names of the states he’d mentioned. And I know all the 50 states’ names by heart because I worked with an American company for a decade.

Why?

Because there was nothing in it for me.

He was recalling his travel experience.

A good story is NOT about recounting your travel experience. That’s for you.

A good story is about a specific moment where you learnt something new about yourself, others or the world around you.

Your learning/realization is your audience’s lesson.

And that they will remember.

Please don’t bore your audience by recounting your travel experience…

…instead tell them a story where your thinking shifted.

When you realized something new about yourself as a result of the experience.

That right there is a story.

Interested in learning how to tell stories that your audience will relate to, remember and repeat? Email me: cm(at)cmmanjunath.com

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